The way I see it, I don't really give a fuck about Michael Essien's life or his happiness, I just see him as the good footballer who could help stop Man Utd from winning the Premier League, which is something I want to happen. I don't wish for him to suffer or anything, but I have no real connection to him, no more than anyone else who's suffering in the world, and there are a lot worse things happening to people than missing a season a football. I look at news of his injury and my first thought it that it hurts Chelsea's chances of winning the Premier League, which from my point of view is a good thing.
I'm not saying I wish injuries on players, but this being sad about players from your rivals getting injured, it's all a façade isn't it?