by Guest Tue Feb 21, 2012 8:56 am
Fair points.
So say you're a 15-16 year old guy, and you get your girlfriend pregnant, you've been together a year and a half. She wants the baby and you don't. What happens?
Does it matter how long you've been together?
You don't want to be a dad at all, do you leave the girl alone or force her to have an abortion?
You don't want to be a dad at that age but would still help support the baby and stay with the girl however long you've been together.
I'm more the last option, I asked them say if you wanted the baby and I didn't what happens then? They said if we have been together ages and she loves me she would have an abortion for the better of us. Or she would ask her family for support but feels I should still be involved.
Don't get me wrong, I'd hate to be in this situation and I said I would like to be a dad one day so wouldn't force the abortion on her, but if I was older of course we'd have the baby but at 16 would you really want to be a dad? I'd support it and care for it all I could but its just such a hard thing to do I imagine.
(All of this is made up btw, I've not got some girl pregnant
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