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No need to take it personal LaightonLAD

crump wrote:

The Zlatan wrote:And the 'ugly' one?

Has the personality of a brick, when I saw ugly she'slike 7/10.

Yes, but you're a LAD. Isn't a 7/10 acceptable for what would just be sex?

The Maestro wrote:

Sean wrote:

Im on Prozac. Well, I was on it from May, then I stopped taking it, had a setback and Im back on it.

That's horrible man, hope you can get through it. Do your family know? Do they do anything to help?

Sorry if these Q's are a bit personal I just genuinely interested as got depression in my family

Its cool, I dont mind.

Yea my family found out after I went through a particulary bad time. They're pretty supportive but they kind of brush it under a carpet, I told them I wanted to get someone to talk to but they completely ignored that.

Crump, have you ever thought your lack of girls is your fault and not there's?

Trent wrote:Crump, have you ever thought your lack of girls is your fault and not there's?

Crazy idea, why would you blame yourself?

Not really Trent.

I go out whenever I can, talk to them, be nice, make conversation, never act a twat then they'll go off with some absolute ego-tastical wanker who has a bad reputation.

crump wrote:Not really Trent.

I go out whenever I can, talk to them, be nice, make conversation, never act a twat then they'll go off with some absolute ego-tastical wanker who has a bad reputation.

Let's put this into perspective Crump.

You know a really hot blonde girl with massive tits, she wants to go out with you but she's also a total bitch. There is another girl who wants to go out with you, she's a total munter but she's really nice. You obviously would pick the hot one.

This is exactly the same as your situation. Girls are just as shallow as you.

Trent wrote:

crump wrote:Not really Trent.

I go out whenever I can, talk to them, be nice, make conversation, never act a twat then they'll go off with some absolute ego-tastical wanker who has a bad reputation.

Let's put this into perspective Crump.

You know a really hot blonde girl with massive tits, she wants to go out with you but she's also a total bitch. There is another girl who wants to go out with you, she's a total munter but she's really nice. You obviously would pick the hot one.

This is exactly the same as your situation. Girls are just as shallow as you.

I'm not a munter

I was really close to this girl for ages and got with her etc and she went off with a twat, another one turned out to be one that churned all her problems on me, another one has the personality of a brick, I just can't find any luck. Bring on Maga.

They don't exactly run off with people, that happened once, to the first example

Trent wrote:

crump wrote:Not really Trent.

I go out whenever I can, talk to them, be nice, make conversation, never act a twat then they'll go off with some absolute ego-tastical wanker who has a bad reputation.

Let's put this into perspective Crump.

You know a really hot blonde girl with massive tits, she wants to go out with you but she's also a total bitch. There is another girl who wants to go out with you, she's a total munter but she's really nice. You obviously would pick the hot one.

This is exactly the same as your situation. Girls are just as shallow as you.

Wise words young Trent.

crump wrote:

Trent wrote:
Let's put this into perspective Crump.

You know a really hot blonde girl with massive tits, she wants to go out with you but she's also a total bitch. There is another girl who wants to go out with you, she's a total munter but she's really nice. You obviously would pick the hot one.

This is exactly the same as your situation. Girls are just as shallow as you.

I'm not a munter

I was really close to this girl for ages and got with her etc and she went off with a twat, another one turned out to be one that churned all her problems on me, another one has the personality of a brick, I just can't find any luck. Bring on Maga.

They don't exactly run off with people, that happened once, to the first example

Stuck up bastard

Trent wrote:

crump wrote:Not really Trent.

I go out whenever I can, talk to them, be nice, make conversation, never act a twat then they'll go off with some absolute ego-tastical wanker who has a bad reputation.

Let's put this into perspective Crump.

You know a really hot blonde girl with massive tits, she wants to go out with you but she's also a total bitch. There is another girl who wants to go out with you, she's a total munter but she's really nice. You obviously would pick the hot one.

This is exactly the same as your situation. Girls are just as shallow as you.

Ooooh. Pretty much just called Crump an ugly cunt.

crump you seem as if you are trying VERY hard with achieving a personality that isn't your own

you do this by talking like a spastic (copying Forest) and buying these knitted jumpers and making your hair into a big quiff

Maybe girls are seeing through that? Maybe they'd like to get to know the real crump?

I'm not, I'm being honest

Confidence is the key, If I'm not ugly I'm not

It's like dancing, gotta have confidence in your shit dance moves. You know their shit. Just nail them, make them look good. Put some titty sprinkles on the shit.

Maybe standards set too high?

I would rather be single for my entire life than put on an act for women.

The Maestro wrote:crump you seem as if you are trying VERY hard with achieving a personality that isn't your own

you do this by talking like a spastic (copying Forest) and buying these knitted jumpers and making your hair into a big quiff

Maybe girls are seeing through that? Maybe they'd like to get to know the real crump?

I don't put on a personality? I don't get it, I'm a nice guy, work hard, don't fight/talk shit about people, respect other people never look down on people.

I don't own any knitted jumpers, and my hair is medium length and a quiff, which suits me.

I am what I am man.

Glen Damon wrote:I would rather be single for my entire life than put on an act for women.

Agreed Glen, it just isn't natural.

crump wrote:I'm not, I'm being honest

Confidence is the key, If I'm not ugly I'm not

It's like dancing, gotta have confidence in your shit dance moves. You know their shit. Just nail them, make them look good. Put some titty sprinkles on the shit.

After enough drinks i generally do tbh dancing is the one thing i hate sober.

crump wrote:

The Maestro wrote:crump you seem as if you are trying VERY hard with achieving a personality that isn't your own

you do this by talking like a spastic (copying Forest) and buying these knitted jumpers and making your hair into a big quiff

Maybe girls are seeing through that? Maybe they'd like to get to know the real crump?

I don't put on a personality? I don't get it, I'm a nice guy, work hard, don't fight/talk shit about people, respect other people never look down on people.

I don't own any knitted jumpers, and my hair is medium length and a quiff, which suits me.

I am what I am man.

You sense of entitlement might be the turn off.

I'm incredibly shallow, I see people's flaws, not their strengths.

I'll just live like a crazy young man for a while.

I feel sad how I never went through my teens having at least one serious girlfriend, ah. Life.

crump wrote:I'll just live like a crazy young man for a while.

I feel sad how I never went through my teens having at least one serious girlfriend, ah. Life.

Plenty of time for that.


Im in my first serious relationship now tbh, doesn't bother me.

True.

I done fuck all from the age of 0-16, wow.

Thats the thing about 'nice guys' who complain girls dont chose them.If you're nice to a girl it doesnt mean you should get something in return, thats not being a nice guy. If you pretend to be a friend to a girl just to get something in return, thats a dick move, its not some kind of trade where you give good deeds and nice ness in return for sex/relationship.

Crump, at the end of the day, the girls like that aren't worth it. Yeah, maybe you'll pull one of them one day, but then you'll realise that it's not all it's cracked out to be.

You're still young, aren't you? And you're going to Uni? Correct? Trust me, at Uni, you will pull and I'm pretty sure you'll find really nice girls with a good personality which will make you look back on these "hot" girls and be like, "why the hell did I find them attractive?".

Sean wrote: Thats the thing about 'nice guys' who complain girls dont chose them.If you're nice to a girl it doesnt mean you should get something in return, thats not being a nice guy. If you pretend to be a friend to a girl just to get something in return, thats a dick move, its not some kind of trade where you give good deeds and nice ness in return for sex/relationship.

Wow.


My mate has tried that few times, never looked at it that way

Sean wrote: Thats the thing about 'nice guys' who complain girls dont chose them.If you're nice to a girl it doesnt mean you should get something in return, thats not being a nice guy. If you pretend to be a friend to a girl just to get something in return, thats a dick move, its not some kind of trade where you give good deeds and nice ness in return for sex/relationship.

Someone who understands my entitlement post.

I blame society and the media. Thanks to them they've made it so we think being nice will get us the girl, and it's the girl's moral obligation to get got. If not she's a whore.

Ché Guayaba wrote:

Trent wrote:
Let's put this into perspective Crump.

You know a really hot blonde girl with massive tits, she wants to go out with you but she's also a total bitch. There is another girl who wants to go out with you, she's a total munter but she's really nice. You obviously would pick the hot one.

This is exactly the same as your situation. Girls are just as shallow as you.

Ooooh. Pretty much just called Crump an ugly cunt.

Nah. I'm just saying that them girls that reject him probably think he is. It's the same with the girls Crump called Munters, deep down, those girls think they're pretty.

Sean wrote: Thats the thing about 'nice guys' who complain girls dont chose them.If you're nice to a girl it doesnt mean you should get something in return, thats not being a nice guy. If you pretend to be a friend to a girl just to get something in return, thats a dick move, its not some kind of trade where you give good deeds and nice ness in return for sex/relationship.

From that post, it seems that you're implying that Crump is only being nice to gain something in return. He hasn't said that. He's only described himself as being a nice guy in general who treats people with respect. I don't know how you've interpreted that as him being a player.

Sean wrote: Thats the thing about 'nice guys' who complain girls dont chose them.If you're nice to a girl it doesnt mean you should get something in return, thats not being a nice guy. If you pretend to be a friend to a girl just to get something in return, thats a dick move, its not some kind of trade where you give good deeds and nice ness in return for sex/relationship.

I disagree, I'm not someone who speaks to 5 girls at a time coming across as a softy. It's just how I am, why should I act anything but nice? I rarely speak to more than one girl, I just need to be 18.

S. wrote:Crump, at the end of the day, the girls like that aren't worth it. Yeah, maybe you'll pull one of them one day, but then you'll realise that it's not all it's cracked out to be.

You're still young, aren't you? And you're going to Uni? Correct? Trust me, at Uni, you will pull and I'm pretty sure you'll find really nice girls with a good personality which will make you look back on these "hot" girls and be like, "why the hell did I find them attractive?".

Indeed mf, I've heard people say that alot, I saw a picture the other day on Facebook it showed the nice guy chasing a hot girl but the hot girl chased the twat, in one of those evolution of man pictures. Then it said in 5 years time and it was the other way round with the hot girl chasing the nice guy.

I think I will, I hate girls who moan about 'finding the twat' ahhh, so much anger.