Life's biggest question...

If you missus sat you down one day and said 'I am sorry, but I had an affair' I bet you'd be pretty pissed.


But, if she said that she had that affair with another gal, would you consider it cheating?

Yes, but I'd get over it real quick.

I think it would be worse if it was with another girl, Then it makes you think did she ever love you?

Wouldn't be to pissed if I could join in though

If she hasn't turned into a lesbian, I wouldn't give a fuck probably.

I'd dump her. If I ever got cheated on I wouldn't give them a 2nd chance

I don't see why it wouldn't be considered cheating.

Was raised last night. A couple of the guys said they wouldn't consider same-sex relationships cheating for some reason..

I don't understand, of course it would be cheating.

What difference does it make if your wife was going at it with another bloke or a woman?

Dan wrote:Was raised last night. A couple of the guys said they wouldn't consider same-sex relationships cheating for some reason..

I can almost see where they are coming from. Although I agree it's cheating, if there is no penis in her hand, mouth, tits, cunt or any other orifice or body part it doesn't seem like that big of a deal. To me at least. Unless we were married or something, probably be a bigger deal.

JMB_94 wrote:I don't understand, of course it would be cheating.

What difference does it make if your wife was going at it with another bloke or a woman?

I think what they mean is, they don't see it as a big a deal if it was with a woman than with a man. Obviously, it is still cheating if we go by the dictionary definition.

Think the purpose of this thread should be if it would bother you more if your wife cheated on you with a woman instead of a man.

If that was the question, than i think it would be more embarrassing to have your wife cheating with another woman, if you get what i mean. Finding out that shes a lesiban or a bisexual as well as being cheated on would make it worse.

Also, you couldn't exactly deck the woman who was cheating on your wife, unlike you could do if were a bloke.

It's still cheating no doubt. But like Che said, you'd probably just get over it alot quicker than if it was with a man.

I'd try to work a threesome out of it...









































...then I'd dump the slut.

I don't consider either scenarios as cheating.

That's cheating and stamping your manhood into the dirt all in one.

This isn't life's biggest question. Life's biggest question is: what would you do if you had a million dollars? And the answer, of course, is: two chicks at the same time.

I see where your mates are coming from. I don't think I would be as pissed about it if it was with a girl.

That is if the relationship between the two was purely sexual of course.

I would tell her it's fine with me if I could watch them have sex together and then bang them both.


But realistically, I would divorce her and never talk to her again.

JMB_94 wrote:Think the purpose of this thread should be if it would bother you more if your wife cheated on you with a woman instead of a man.

If that was the question, than i think it would be more embarrassing to have your wife cheating with another woman, if you get what i mean. Finding out that shes a lesiban or a bisexual as well as being cheated on would make it worse.

Also, you couldn't exactly deck the woman who was cheating on your wife, unlike you could do if were a bloke.

The purpose of the thread is whether you would consider it cheating, because they didn't last night. I know what I make my threads for..

Sorry, i just thought it was fairly obvious.

Dan wrote:Was raised last night. A couple of the guys said they wouldn't consider same-sex relationships cheating for some reason..

Those guys are fools, if you're in a serious relationship and your chick cheats on your (especially if it's an affair, which implies long lasting) you'd be hurt. No matter if was a dude or a woman, and it'll hurt the same, maybe even more.

I think guys that don't consider it cheating would only say that because they think they got a shot at a threesome or a three-way relationship. They'd change their tune if the girlfriend left them for the mistress though.

Rei wrote:That's cheating and stamping your manhood into the dirt all in one.

This.

It definitely is cheating. If your girlfriend is actually attracted to women then it's the same as her being with a man. To you it might seem alright but really she's feeling the same feelings towards this woman than she would with a man.

You can't be with a bitch who's feeling something towards another person, plus she'd be a lying bitch.

I'd just whip out my cock and shake it in her face.

OK, change the question. It's a night out, she goes home with a woman, no feelings towards lesbianism, she just wanted to experiment and prefers riding you than grinding on her. Feel the same?

Dan wrote:OK, change the question. It's a night out, she goes home with a woman, no feelings towards lesbianism, she just wanted to experiment and prefers riding you than grinding on her. Feel the same?

It's still fucking cheating. If you are married or in a relationship, it's understood that both partners are supposed to keep sexual acts limited to each other. It doesn't matter if she is doing it with another man, woman, shemale, or sheep.

Alright, calm down..

No, fuck you! I need someone/something to take all my anger out on right now.

Still wouldn't care that much.

I'm not sure but I think my stand is coming from me assuming our relationship isn't that serious.

I'm finding it hard picturing that I would ever get in a serious relationship with someone who was capable of this. You never know but still.