Genuinely need some advice.

I'm in a awkward position and need a bit of advice because I don't want to make a wrong move.

Basically I believe my Auntie has been taking money off me and my dad.

She has his post office cards and stuff because he's wheelchair bound and forgets things within the space of 10 minutes (Doctors are looking into his illness) so she attempts to get his food in every week and such.

I usually get £70 myself, that's for clothing myself, feeding myself, sixth form etc.

Do I just go and ask her for his post office cards and that without any hesitation and look after him and myself like but knowing she'll say 'No, you're too young' or excuses such as that..

Do I let it continue? Reason I think she's being a bit funny this is because a people that know my Auntie think she's a bit dodgy anyways. And recently I got money taken off me for my room Sky bill but we had it cancelled a month ago and I logged into the website and they're is no bill to pay.

Oh I've not got any other family members I can get in touch with. Not got a clue what to do basically.

I really shouldn't be posting this on here but anyways...

Start. wrote:I usually get £70 myself, that's for clothing myself, feeding myself, sixth form etc.

Do I just go and ask her for his post office cards and that without any hesitation and look after him and myself like but knowing she'll say 'No, you're too young' or excuses such as that..

Yes, say that you want to take the responsibility yourself and take care of the father that you love.

Also, confront her about the Sky bill. If she dodges the question or fails to offer a legitimate excuse, you will know that she is being dishonest, at which point you should contact another adult or, if needs be, the police.

'No, you're too young'

aren't you 40?

but seriously

You are gonna have to face her. Tell her whats up, also think about going on Jeremy kyle.

Glen Damon wrote:

Start. wrote:I usually get £70 myself, that's for clothing myself, feeding myself, sixth form etc.

Do I just go and ask her for his post office cards and that without any hesitation and look after him and myself like but knowing she'll say 'No, you're too young' or excuses such as that..

Yes, say that you want to take the responsibility yourself and take care of the father that you love.

Also, confront her about the Sky bill. If she dodges the question or fails to offer a legitimate excuse, you will know that she is being dishonest, at which point you should contact another adult or, if needs be, the police.

What if she just says no to me asking to taking responsibility? I'm 16, I can't really do anything right?

If she is doing something illegal than go to the police if she says that.

Start. wrote:

Glen Damon wrote:Yes, say that you want to take the responsibility yourself and take care of the father that you love.

Also, confront her about the Sky bill. If she dodges the question or fails to offer a legitimate excuse, you will know that she is being dishonest, at which point you should contact another adult or, if needs be, the police.

What if she just says no to me asking to taking responsibility? I'm 16, I can't really do anything right?

Yeah, you can't really do anything. Lead off with that, wait a few days, then ask about the Sky bill. If she refuses to refund you, then more serious action needs to be taken.

Join the Student Room

Make posts anonymously

Do what you think is right.

If its bothering you, you shouldn't just let it slide. The best way is to just talk to her.

Confront her, if she wont show you the card tell a family member you trust your concerns.

I know something that could turn my family upside down and destroy my Nan but I've kept it to myself, my Nan has a younger partner, he's about 50 and my nans 75. Bit weird yeah

Anyone went on his computer when I was about 12 and went to search for some games and it game up with something like "Swinging association" or something, been on my mind whether to tell someone about it but by now it's way too late and no-one would believe me. Ah well.


I'd try and monitor her movements Start, do some DIY work of your own. Being serious try and get in touch with the authorities, they won't mind and if you tell them everything they'll support you.

You should confront her about the Sky bill only. You really have no evidence other than that.

Sorry to hear about your Dad, must be a horrible illness

I'd maybe ask a good friend who might be familiar (npi) with your family situation. But I understand why you posted that here, might be easier anonymously.

Or the people who said your aunt was dodgy, who are they? Can you talk to them?

Tell a family member asap mf

Confront her, if she says no, get in contact with the police, if she is doing that then she is breaking the law/ I wouldn't feel even a little bit sorry getting a family member in trouble/sent down if they deserved it though. Kinda heartless.

Ah thanks a lot guys, helped a lot.

Going to go have a word with my Auntie tomorrow hopefully and confront her about the Sky and if she stutters and fails to come up with a logical answer I'll go further and such.

tell us how it went pls

Zzonked wrote:Confront her, if she wont show you the card tell a family member you trust your concerns.

VivaRonaldoLAD wrote:Tell a family member asap mf

Strong reading skills....

Start. wrote:Oh I've not got any other family members I can get in touch with.

Confront her, you're likely 16-17? and you're old enough if you want to be, to look after your dad.

So did you speak to her?

She might not care what you say. But good luck.

Why dont you ask your bro to speak to her?

Gegilworld93 wrote:tell us how it went pls

Not really any of your business is it?

Novi, OP has asked us for advice, we have given said advice and OP has stated that he will take our advice, now OP must deliver or else....


















OP is a faggot.

Gegilworld93 wrote:tell us how it went pls

Least unexpected post of the year. I'm surprised you didn't ask him to film the confrontation and then post it on here.

When he records it, how will we know it is actually him? He needs to do the trademark "P" hand signal right before he goes in.

Novi wrote:

Gegilworld93 wrote:tell us how it went pls

Not really any of your business is it?

Yet he posted this on a forum? don't think it matters now.



Hope it went ok anyway.

menalawyerguy wrote:

Zzonked wrote:Confront her, if she wont show you the card tell a family member you trust your concerns.

VivaRonaldoLAD wrote:Tell a family member asap mf

Strong reading skills....

Start. wrote:Oh I've not got any other family members I can get in touch with.

I actually read that, but I read it as 'Oh I've got other family members I can get in touch with' so I would say it's more strong comprehension skills.

Novi wrote:

Gegilworld93 wrote:tell us how it went pls

Not really any of your business is it?

lmao

Novi wrote:

Gegilworld93 wrote:tell us how it went pls

Not really any of your business is it?

If srs, this is honestly the dumbest comment I've seen by anybody not named Jela on this forum. And even in Jela only has two, maybe three, that can top it.